Episode 6: How to deal with in laws
The episode begins with a letter from a listener who experienced prejudice due to a 15-year age gap in her relationship. She expresses resentment towards family interference, feeling that if the man were older, the reaction would have been different. The hosts agree that societal norms often favor relationships where the man is older, leading to bias against women in similar situations. The discussion highlights that age biases vary by culture and time period, questioning what is considered an acceptable age gap.
The hosts emphasize that while society may accept older men with younger women, the reverse often faces scrutiny. The hosts note that age gaps can lead to differences in life stages and interests, which may complicate relationships. For instance, one partner may be preparing for retirement while the other is focused on career advancement.
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What You’ll Learn In This Episode
00:33 – The Conflict with the Sister-in-Law
01:58 – The Complex Dynamics of In-Laws
03:26 – Approaching with Curiosity Instead of Accusation
04:49 – Avoiding Ultimatums and Defensive Responses
07:10 – Asking Open-Ended, Empathetic Questions
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